i could actually flash the phone with P2K Tools VS which has a built in flasher.
remember when i flashed my phone with other software it would just revert back to bootloader mode.
P2K could actually assign a ramdownloader and memory map and i could see SW Upgrade on the screen.
it then flashed all codegroups and at the end it said ok "do u wanna restart the phone"
when i pressed yes, same thing - phone restarted in bootloader mode.
after that i repaired pds again and tried with rsd lite, P2K easy tool and fb. everything went fine just after i get successful messages, its when the phone shows bootloader mode.
maybe there is sumthing wrong with the motherboard
check out this video clip
http://www.4shared.com/file/28346963/b6cd8d6e/inbrite1.html